It helps you to not feel so fucking alone, basically.
But I do know well that, when dealing with sexuality or any other sensitive topic, it is generally useful to hear the stories of people with experiences similar to your own, because it helps you to better understand your own experience and your own body.
Our unemployment rate is twice the national average [ . Nomi is a transgender singer and host of the podcast .
“Right now there’s a lot of sensitivity around trans issues,” Nomi told me recently.
’” When she did start having sex, it felt kind of weird for a while. “I was like, ‘Girl, is it normal to just feel like you’re rubbing on a carpet when a guy is eating you out?!
“I was really self-conscious, because I was blaming all of the awkward sex on my neo-vagina,” Nomi said. ’ She was like, ‘Oh, girl, yeah, sometimes it’s a fucking nightmare.’”Nomi was faced with a harsh reality: A lot of guys just aren’t that great with their tongue. “But then, when I met a guy who good at it, I was like, ‘Oh, duh, okay, it really depends.